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You ever walk into a room feeling magnetic as hell, ready to take on your goals, and then leave second-guessing yourself because someone said, “Just being honest, that’s not really realistic”?

Yeah. That’s not honesty. That’s projection.

And if you’re not careful, you’ll start living by someone else’s story instead of your own.

Whether you’re manifesting your next reality, scaling your business, or just trying to hold a higher standard for your life, the second you start leveling up, you’ll notice people trying to hand you their fears. Not because they’re evil. Not because they don’t want you to win. But because your expansion triggers their safety system.

So, let’s talk about how to spot that energy, stop absorbing it, and protect your frequency like it’s your full-time job.

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Where Limiting Beliefs Actually Come From

No one wakes up one day and says, “You know what? I think I’ll sabotage my own potential today.”

We’re all carrying programming – handed down by parents, society, trauma, media, you name it. We get trained to believe certain things are “realistic” or “safe,” and then spend adulthood trying to unlearn it all.

When you start doing subconscious work (reprogramming, manifestation, mindset) you begin to realize: “Wait… my thoughts create my reality. So why am I letting other people’s beliefs dictate my life?”

That’s when the awakening hits.

But here’s the sneaky part: once you start breaking your own old patterns, new ones can sneak in from other people. Especially if you’re not paying attention.

Think of it like cleaning your house only to let someone walk in with muddy shoes.

• A family member “warning” you not to start your business.
  
• A friend projecting their heartbreak onto your relationship.
  
• Someone saying “That’s not realistic” when they’ve never even tried.
  

They mean well, but their advice is filtered through fear.

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How to Spot It + Stop Absorbing It

You can feel when someone’s trying to shrink your energy. You just need to start listening to the cues.

Red Flag Phrases:

• “I’m just being honest…”
  
• “That’s not realistic.”
  
• “I tried that, and it didn’t work for me.”
  

Translation? “I failed at this, so I need you to fail too so I feel safe.”

Your subconscious is powerful, but it’s also loyal – it takes in repeated input and starts to make it truth. That’s why emotional awareness is everything.

When someone gives you advice, check in:

• Do I feel expanded or smaller right now?
  
• Was this my belief before they said something?
  
• Does this person even live the life I’m building toward?
  

If not, stop taking advice from people who haven’t walked the path you’re on.

Protect your energy like your future depends on it, because it does. Every belief you accept becomes part of your frequency. And your frequency becomes your reality.

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The Power of Being “Delusional”

Here’s the thing: being “delusional” is just having the balls to believe in a version of reality no one else can see yet.

People call it delusion because it challenges the laws of their comfort zone. But the truth is, the unknown is where all creation begins.

Every successful entrepreneur, artist, or visionary started off being “unrealistic.” They weren’t chasing validation. They were anchoring into assumption.

If you can hold your vision through other people’s confusion, that’s power. 

If you can stand tall in your belief even when no one claps, that’s alignment. 

And if you can stay grounded in your new identity while everyone else doubts it, that’s mastery.

Your job isn’t to convince them. It’s to build the evidence they can’t ignore.

Affirm this: “I choose myself. I choose my new reality. I choose to be 100% in control of my frequency.”

You don’t owe anyone an explanation for believing in more.

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The Magnetic Challenge

For the next week, do this: Every time someone offers unsolicited advice, pause and ask:

“Is this belief mine or theirs?”

Write it down if you need to. Then release it.

Anchor back into your own vision with a quick reset:

• Play your favorite manifestation playlist.
  
• Say your affirmations out loud.
  
• Visualize your dream reality for 60 seconds.
  

Your frequency is your filter.

Your beliefs are your blueprint.

And the second you stop letting other people edit them—you become untouchable.

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Ready to protect your energy and manifest the life you actually want?

Tune into Episode 7 of Magnetic & Messy: “Stop Letting Other People’s Limiting Beliefs Mess Up Your Frequency.”

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